Me (Erik)

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Posted on July 20, 2008 at 10:17 pm, under Ponderings, , .

One of the Husbear and my hair salon receptionists—of roughly 9 years—died this past Thursday. Today [Sunday] was her visitation, and tomorrow [Monday] will be her funeral.

While I don’t really spend much time at the hair salon—that’s the Husbear’s place of work—I did know Joni over the 9 years she has/had been with us. She is/was part of our family.

I tend not to be overly emotional, but it was hard to watch the salon crew grieving. Joni has/had been a part of some of their lives as long as many of them have been doing hair.

Some of us went for food and drinks after the visitation. They were in better spirits sharing their memories of Joni with each other. They will at least always have that.

I just wanted to say goodbye Joni. You’ll be missed.


The only picture I could find with Joni and myself. Joni making me laugh, as always.

Until next time…
Erik

13 comments »

  1. July 20, 2008 @ 11:49 pm #

    I know it sounds trite, but I am very sorry for your loss.

  2. July 21, 2008 @ 4:50 am #

    Sorry to hear of such bad news buddy. Hugs to you and your husbear!

  3. July 21, 2008 @ 6:11 am #

    Sorry to hear. I hope everyone is coping ok.

  4. July 21, 2008 @ 6:22 am #

    @Alexander:
    It doesn’t sound trite to me. Thank you for your thoughts.

    @Romach:
    Thank you for your thoughts. I’ll pass them and the hugs on to the Husbear.

    @Deadrobot:
    Thank you. Everyone is dealing with it in their own way. She was closer than a family member to many of them.

  5. July 21, 2008 @ 11:39 am #

    Sorry to read of the loss, Erik. I hope that Husbear has been able to handle the loss well and that those of her immediate family have others to surround themselves with support and comfort.

  6. RG
    July 21, 2008 @ 3:22 pm #

    I’m so sorry for you and your partner’s loss. My deepest sympathies. Hold your husbear tight tonight.

  7. July 21, 2008 @ 7:30 pm #

    My sympathy and sorrow go out to you both. She sounds likes a very special person who will be missed.

  8. July 21, 2008 @ 8:53 pm #

    @Steven:
    Thank you. All are doing as well can be expected in such circumstances.

    @RG:
    Thank you for your thoughts, RG. And I will.

    @sorted:
    Thank you from both of us. She was, and she definitely will be.

  9. July 21, 2008 @ 9:19 pm #

    my condolences.

  10. July 21, 2008 @ 11:33 pm #

    that was sad
    it always hurts to have someone you care for die.
    it never gets any easier.

  11. July 22, 2008 @ 6:45 am #

    @kyle:
    Thank you very much.

    @Urspo:
    One would think we humans would be used to the whole “circle of life” thing… but I guess there are some final frontiers out there.

  12. cb
    July 22, 2008 @ 3:59 pm #

    Sorry that you lost a good employee and a better friend.

  13. July 30, 2008 @ 9:08 pm #

    @cb:
    Thank you, cb, for your thoughts. Very much.

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